I guess the 19 year old college kids I play the game with are completely different than your crew because it is always a fight to play drums. When getting into the room, it's a race to be the first to call "Shot drums" before everyone else. No one ever wants to sing, so I end up singing most of the time because I'm the only one that will do anything. Most people play the drums on medium except that one guy who says "I've never played a guitar hero game before..." and the majority of my friends all can play guitar on expert. I'm the only one who can play drums on expert... or could before my pedal broke because I played the game the way I was supposed to and obviously they don't want you to play their game too much or it will break. You're supposed to shell out all that money to not play. Different strokes for different folks, I guess.